Knowledge of Self only happens through self-examination. This is different than the pre-cancer self-screenings we’re all encouraged to do. This reflection identifies a different cancer: assumption
As I mentioned in a previous post, doing a deep dive into your own assumptions and mental models gives us a clearer picture of our own shortcomings and flaws. It’s also an opportunity to get a new perspective on our life experiences.
Not long ago, I listened to a podcast interview with a master storyteller. He suggested the following method to doing a good self-story, which for our purposes is a good way to do some introspection.
Select an event, experience, or person, such as an employee. Now identify BEST, WORST, FIRST, LAST.
- My BEST employee was _______. Here is why.
- My WORST employee was _______. Here is why.
- My FIRST employee was _______. Here is something about them.
- My LAST employee was _______. Here is something about them.
Fill in the blanks and take some notes. Reflect on those notes. You’ll probably learn a lot about your own motives, desires, and assumptions.
Start today!